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Hadith of the Update

Narrated by Ibn 'Abbas,

The Prophet said, "There are two blessings which many people lose : (They are) Health and free time for doing good."

[Bukhari. Volume 8, Book 76, Number 421]

Quote of the Update

Freedom is the freedom to say that two plus two make four. If that is granted, all else follows.

-George Orwell

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Please... Be A Considerate Friend


Hey guys. How are you? Hope you're in a good health as well with your family and friends. n_n   n_n   n_n   n_n   n_n   n_n   n_n   n_n   n_n  .... I can't stop smiling tonight because this morning, someone said to me "Blog ko interesting la Raja."  LOL. Tersenyum, tersengih seorang diri tanpa henti dari pagi.... sampailah satu insiden terjadi. Huh. Such a BIG mood spoiler that kinda ruined my day. So, because of that incident, tonight I'll be writing about becoming a considerate friend.
Who is a considerate friend? A considerate friend is a friend who always think of our feelings, help us solve our problems and understand our situations (just a definition of my own). So, are you a considerate friend? Are we? And even AM I? Hmm. Such a question can only be asnwered by people around us and not us ourselves because sometimes, we might think that we did something good and everybody loved / liked what we did but actually we're wrong. Everything we did, there would be a group which disagrees and a group which agrees with our doings. There is a famous quote by.... I can't remember who (sorry) which sounds more or less like this,
"If you find something that everyone agrees on, then it's wrong."
Jadi, kita tak boleh kata kita sempurna, semua orang suka kita sebab kita tak pernah sakitkan hati sesiapa dan yada yada yada sebab "No one is perfect." So, at least. AT LEAST. Try to be a considerate person. Coz, macam tadi, kesian dengan seorang kawan aku ( si A), disalahkan oleh seorang lagi kawan aku ( si B) yang mengatakan si A -lah punca eksperimen kimia kami gagal. Come on -lah. Thats not cool man / woman/ dude/ brotha/ sista. Haish. When we work as a team, no matter if our team fails or whatsoever, we couldn't blame any of our team members for the failure but ourselves. Maybe we knew something was wrong with our preparation but we just keep quiet, or maybe we knew that one of our team members have problems and we didn't even try to help him / her and many more 'maybe' reasons. So, who else do we got to blame? NO ONE except US! US! AND US! You can consider yourself as a considerate friend if you:
-care about your friends
-feel uneasy when your friends are in trouble
-try to understand your friends problem and help your friends
-always try to please your friends with e.g. your advices, moral support etc.
-LOVE,LOVE AND LOVE YOUR FRIENDS (p/s: bukan bercinta noh...sayang wokey...jangan salah paham noh)
I guess that's all for tonight. Thanks for reading guys. n_n

p/s: aku rasa aku pun takde semua ciri-ciri "considerate friends" tu. Hehe


~Lonymous~

3 comments:

  1. nice post la raja. hahah... friends for benefit.

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  2. cewaaaah. afifah kan cakap blog kau best ? haha. nway, blog kau memang best :) keep it up okay ? rajin rajin lah menulis lagi. haha

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  3. tehah: thanks...yup...tp kna pndai pilih la kwn tu..n_n
    fasya: haha...ha ah...thanks...will do..insyaAllah...n_n

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