Hey guys. Tonight, I wanna talk about 'orang memberi, kita menerima, dah dikurangkan, diam-diam dah la'. Sekarang ni, semakin ramai orang yang tak bersyukur dengan nikmat yang diberi. You got something for free every month then when the quantity is cut (masih dapat cuma dikurangkan), you strike the person who gave you those things. Is that appropriate? HELL NO. Cuba bayangkan, korang janji nak bagi coklat kat kawan korang setiap hari. Then, satu hari, korang ada masalah kewangan dan tak mampu nak bagi coklat tu kat kawan korang jadi korang gantikan coklat tu dengan beberapa biji gula-gula. Tiba-tiba kawan korang tanya kenapa bagi gula-gula, bukan coklat. Bila korang jelaskan sebabnya, kawan korang tu mengamuk, marah-marah dll. What do you feel? Kalau aku, mesti aku fikir "Dia ni kan, dah la aku bagi coklat tiap-tiap hari, mahal pulak tu, free lagi, tanpa sebab pulak tu,bila aku tak mampu, marah aku pulak.Untung aku bagi jugak gula-gula.Tak bagi terus kang baru tau. MELAMPAU SIAL!" This is the problem of our people. This mentality should be long gone from us. The problem is, you think of the gift (eg:allowances, subsidy...etc) by other people as one of your incomes. Itu yang jadi masalah tu. Bila dah fikir satu pemberian sebagai suatu pendapatan, banyak masalah akan timbul lepas tu, lebih-lebih lagi apabila pemberian tu dikurangkan ataupun dipotong terus. When you didn't get those things, you'll feel anxious and worried because it might cause you trouble. Ya la. Dengan dapat bantuan pun kita rasa tak cukup, tak dapat bantuan... lagilah kan? So, in order to settle this problem. You need to think of the gift/help etc just as extras or bonuses. That way, when you didn't get it, you won't feel too worried. Sebabnya, kita tak rasa pun bantuan tu sebagai pendapatan tetap, cuma tambahan sahaja. Dapat ke tak, buat 'derk' je. Bak kata orang putih 'stay cool'. Hehe. Anyway, my point is, please respect people/body etc. who help you in any ways. Even if they might not be able to mantain their help, at least they try. Right? Some ways to solve this problem, meet and discuss with them or the best is, do extra work. Extra work = extra money. Hehe. Susah sikitlah, tapi sekurang-kurangnya pendapatan tu tetap. I guess that's all for tonight. My tutorial is waiting to be done. Chow.
~Lonymous~
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