Hadith of the Update

Narrated by Ibn Mas'ud,

The Prophet used to take care of us in preaching by selecting a suitable time, so that we might not get bored. (He abstained from pestering us with sermons and knowledge all the time).

[Bukhari. Volume 1, Book 3, Number 68]

Quote of the Update

Everyday is a new day, and you'll never be able to find happiness if you don't move on.

-Carrie Underwood

Friday, December 30, 2011

Treat Your Siblings Like Siblings

Hey guys. Morning morning and morning. *Inhaling fresh air* Huh. What have you done this morning guys? You went for a jog? Walaweh. Nice. Cooking? *Bak sikit..XD* Me? I did.... Err.. Almost nothing. Reading, facebooking,,,, and some other boring stuffs. Now, time to continue to the topic. Why did I feel like writing about this? Because yesterday, I went to Pesta Pulau Pinang, *pakat mai sini, Pulau Pinang menanti* and I met with my mother's friend who was/is taking care of the parking lot. Pak cik apa tah nama dia but it doesn't matter. He's a nice guy. Then, my mom told me that his sister always humiliate him. Not the normal joking type of humiliation but very mean type of humiliation. Example,*hanya contoh rekaan* "Kau ni bodoh,pemalas,miskin,kotor,jijik dll* What do you think guys? Is that how a sister who has quite high income treat her little brother? According to my mom, that pakcik can't even read. Sepatutnya, adik tu bukan dihina, tapi diberi peluang untuk belajar. You know how to read, so what's wrong with teaching him how to read? No big deal. Rezeki Tuhan bagi, jangan kedekut sangat. Dengan adik-beradik sendiri je pun. Now is his time, maybe next is your's. Only God knows. I heard that the sister's children are not that smart compared to the brother's. See, maybe he's not clever but his childrens are. Tuhan Maha Adil. Whatever you do, whatever you get are a gift by Him. So, don't be over-proud of yourselves. Tak kemana blogwalker oi. For example, you may have a BMW car right now(itupun second hand..ceit) and when you are 'takabbur'(too proud like saying, "I'm rich. No one can take it away from me. Not even God can.), just you wait. Orang Melayu kata, dua kali Jumaat la tu. Dup dup dup. Your BMW are seized by the bank. Maybe it's not because of you but your children. Diorang hisap dadah ke apa, or berhutang ngan Along ke apa, nak bayar hutang punya pasal, korang pulak yang kena korban. That's what happens when you're 'takabbur'. Ok. Aku tau. This is just a typical drama scene. Tengok tv melambak-lambak scene macam ni. But, it can happen. So, don't be 'takabbur'. Don't be proud with what you have or what you get. You may think something is good for you but it's actually bad and you may think something is bad for you but it's actually good. That's just how life works. Maybe you don't get the intelligence of your brother or sister now but in the future maybe you get the wealth that your brother and sister can only dream of. *Ok. Bad example but you get my point. Right?* My point here is, treat your siblings nicely even if they are not that lucky in life and don't be 'takabbur'. Lainlah kalau adik-beradik kita tu kerja malas, tahu-tahu mintak duit je, takpe jugak. Bolehlah nak dimarahnya. But if they're not like that, then don't treat them badly okay. That's all for now I guess. *Tiada idea nak tulis panjang-panjang*


Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Be Proud of Yourself

Hey guys. *Penat* Just came back from BJ Kompleks. Shopping-shopping sikit hari ni. Today, I found a new blog written by a 14 years old student(becoming 15 really soon). I am writing about this because I am really impressed by her advice. I quote,
"yes, you. stop being unhappy with yourself. you are perfect in your imperfections. stop wishing you look like someone else or wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else. stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. stop hating your body, your face, your personality and your quirks. love them. without those things you wouldn't be you. and why would you want to be like anyone else? be confident with who you are. smile. it'll draw people in. if anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself then you stick your middle finger in the air and say screw it. dont depend your happiness on others anymore. love your flaws. love your imperfections . they make you you . and you are pretty amazing."
 I salute you sister. I love your whole quotation*except for the middle finger thingie*. You're young but so...Oh no. I'm at lost with my words. You know what I mean. So guys, if this small, petite girl can think,write and do something like this, why not us? *I believe most of my blog readers are older than this girl* Maybe some of you think, "Alah...Setakat tulis dalam blog.Kalau dia tipu pun mana kau tau." Haha. Maybe you're right. But, I am inclined to believe this girl wrote what she really felt. I saw her once in a bus. She is like, really-really small *memang kalau korang tengok,you might even say she's a primary school student(sorry if you're reading this sister)*, but, I saw her love for herself. And I believe she has overcome the, "Why am I so small? Kawan aku semua tinggi-tinggi and besar-besar" feeling. I used to have the same feeling too. But because after reading this kind of quote, talked to someone who have superb way of making me feel better, I love myself more than ever. *Apalah yang aku merapu sekarang ni* What I'm trying to say is, love yourselves dudes and babes. I have so many friends who somehow believe in me and they told me what they feel about themselves. And the most common question is, "Kenapa aku dilahirkan kurang ______(apa-apa tinggi)? Kenapa aku tak dilahirkan _______(yang bertentangan dengan kekurangan yang mereka tinggi macam Robert Wadlow*tallest man in the world recorded by Guiness).
A picture of Robert Wadlow and his father
I know some of you used to think like that. But believe me, that's only what you think. And you should be grateful to God because there are so many tall people who wished they were smaller or shorter. I believe this would be the most common case for girls*hanya jangkaan*. Why? Because many people think someone who are short are cute*right?* For tall girls, they must be worried about how can they find a boyfriend. They are tall and they are making assumptions that no men will like women who are taller than them. Wrong! There are so many men who married a woman taller than them. For example. Bernie Ecclestone the CEO of Formula One Management.
Picture with her ex-wife Slavica
Macam dalam anime Angelic Layer*jangan bagitahu korang tak pernah tengok*, heroin-nya kecik,comel lotte bak kata orang Kelantan dan musuhnya dalam episod 19 bernama Chitose yang merupakan seorang yang tinggi lampai. Chitose said, "You will never understand how hard it feels for a girl to be tall like me. All the boys think that small girls are kawaii*cute/comel* And the heroin, Misaki was really shocked. "I always thought that being tall have its advantages. Only now I know that there people who hate being tall." In the end of that episode, Chitose got herself a boyfriend. LOL. *I sure watch a lot of anime-la* Anyway, my point is, be happy for who you are guys. You might think being fat is a disadvantage and believe me I've heard a girl said she wants a fat guy to be her husband. You might think being a nerd is a disadvantage but you must know there are quite a number of persons who wanted to be like you. So, stop hating yourselves, stop saying something bad about yourselves, and start appreciating yourselves. Like Malcolm Forbes said, "Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are." Don't be like in the song Don't Let Me Get Me by Pink. "Everyday I fight a war against the mirror, I can't take the person starin' back at me, I'm a hazard to myself. Don't let me get me, I'm my own worst enemy".

That's all for now. Till the next post and don't forget to visit again. Chow.


Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Jangan Menangis

Jangan maraa aa...Haha

Hey guys. It's been a while isn't it? I really have no time to update this blog last month as I was busy with studying(macamlah aku study sangat...LOL). Now, I am having a week of holiday,so I'll try to update as much as I can. So, make sure to come and visit when you have the time all right. n_n
Right. Let's get back to the topic. 'Jangan Menangis' or Don't Cry In English(bajet aku je pandai BI..haha). I got the idea to write about this a few days, wait maybe weeks ago. I can't remember but that was when I saw Ms.Sweetest Drug was crying because of I don't know why. Really. I don't know why. But I heard that she cried a few times because of a few text messages that insulted her(just a gossip all right..idk the real reason). Jadi... Bayangkan ok. Imagine if you're in her shoes, what will you do? Let's say an anonymous(not me ok) texted you saying, "Ko xyah bajet hot ar./ Dasar pompuan jalang/ Laki sialan..Player ba**..Muka hodoh sial/ dll". What do you feel? Heart tores apart? Or, "Aku ni hodooohhhh." Or text your bf/gf, "Bi/Hunny..tlg baby/yunk..adeewww owg kateeww titew hodoh...waa...jaat(LOL)" Or...Ok,berapa banyak or daa. Keep the answers to yourself.
Why,why,why,why and why do you feel sad for something that you know that is/are wayyyyyyyy not true? Come on. Ask yourself. Sesetengah orang, dia tahu dia cantik,hot,hensem,lawa dan bermacam-macamlah compliment yang orang bagi kat dia kan... Sampai rasanya kalau pujian tu ada bentuk,box ke love ke atau apa-apa je la... For sure even one big bungalow will not be enough to keep it. Banyak sangat pujian yang dia dapat katakan. BUT!!! I wonder why they become totally emo, moody, loser(that's right...LOSER) just because of one or two text insulting messages or being insulted directly by a person. Pelikkan?(nod2) Come on. Let me share a quote by my lovely friend DOMO NISOOT(thanks and sorry coz I took it without your permission first).. 
"Haters don't really hate you. They hate themselves because you're a reflection of what they wish to be." -Nisoot
Nice one aye. Well, I'm sure most of you...At least 90% agree with that quote. Maybe some people just have that kind of attitude to make people feel down of themselves but most of the time, the cases are because they're jealous of who you are. So, when you read this, I hope you will keep the quote in mind and when any people insult you, say to yourself, "They're just jealous if me." Repeat a few times if you want. Shikashi(Tapi), kalau dah ulang-ulang banyak kali pun still sedih, find someone to talk about it. Let me suggest the best people for you to express your feelings. Your parents. Then, your friends. I don't suggest you to talk about this to your bf/gf. Why? Because mostly, bf/gf hates hearing your troubles. Believe me. Takyah la nak manja-manja sangat. Buat diorang menyampah je. Baik cakap dengan kawan baik yang kita tahu dia sanggup mendengar masalah kita and somehow will try to help us. But, if you think your bf/gf is okay.... Then do whatever you want. Besides that, one of the most important thing is, DO NOT GET ANGRY. When you're angry, you're as good as lose. When you get angry, your thinking becomes cloudy and you cannot think properly. Instead, stay cool and if you have words that can hurl the insult back to the insultor, SAY IT! If not, just stay cool, and walk away like nothing happens and this I believe will somehow hurts the insultor's guts. Ala. Macam citer anime la. For example, Naruto. Naruto always insulted Sasuke right? But all Sasuke did is walk away or sometimes just say "baka"(stupid/bodoh). And because of the cool attitude, all of the girls love Sasuke. Kan kan kan? Jadi apa lagi bro/sis... STAY COOL...
Let me write the list of 'what to do when people insult you' that I gave you in my crappy writing above:
- remember to say quietly "They're just jealous of me"
- talk to your parents and best friends(bf/gf if you want)
- don't get angry
- say something that can hurl back the insult(if you have one)- stay cool
- walk away from the insultor

Before this post ends, let me share a story with you. A joker came onto stage and made a very funny joke. All the audience laughed. The joker then repeated the joke and this time, only a few people laughed. The joker repeated the joke again and this time no one laughed instead they got angry. "Boo. Don't you have different jokes to tell.. Boo" And this time the joker said, "If you cannot laugh on the same joke over and over again, why do you cry over the same mistake you did or the same humiliation by people over and over again?"
Till the next post. See ya.



Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...