Hadith of the Update

Narrated by Ibn 'Umar,

The Prophet decreed that one should not eat two dates together at a time unless he gets the permission from his companions (sharing the meal with him).

[Bukhari. Volume 3, Book 44, Number 669]

Quote of the Update

Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.

-William James

Sunday, November 18, 2012


Hi guys. Sashiburi dana minna(It's been a while everyone). Finally I get to update this blog. Sorry for leaving it un-updated for so long. I actually have no idea on what to update and also due to time constrain. Today, I'll write a bit about ambitions. No need to explain what ambition is, I'm sure all of you know what it means.

'Apahal pulak mamat ni nak tulis pasal karangan bebudak ni haa' is what you might be thinking right now. Sebenarnya, bebaru ni Jaw baru sedar mengenai pentingnya ada cita-cita ni. Like, reallyX99 important. At first I thought it was like,'Naa,it's okay if I don't have ambition,I'll take whatever I can and think of that later.' But now, I'm like, 'Aku kena cecepat cari cita-cita,cepat,cepat,cepat....aaaaarrrrrr.' Thank God, I managed to find it which is, ada la(poyo je..ngeh3). Melalut dah ni, poin di sini adalah, CITA-CITA TU PENTING!!

Anyway, why do I stress that ambition is important? Here are the reasons. First, without ambitions, your young adult life will have a big problem and may cause you depression and to the extreme case, you might be in the psychiatric ward*please take note that this is the truth and I'm not exaggerating*. x(  Want that? Of course not. You see, I have some friends with this kind of problem. So let me tell a story that have been told by someone to me. There's a medical student in a university and his problem before he got into medical school is, he does not know what his ambition is. Jadinya, disebabkan mengikut kata-kata ahli keluarga dan juga disebabkan merasa keputusan peperiksaan dia bagus, diambillah akan dia kursus perubatan. Nak dipendekkan cerita, kawan ni hilang semangat nak belajar sebab medik bukanlah minatnya. Dia paksa juga untuk meneruskan medik dan akhirnya dia telah dimasukkan ke wad psychiatric sebab ada masalah mental*not that severe though,Alhamdulillah*. Don't want this to happen to you? Then think of an ambition.

Final reason, according to Maslow's Hierarchy of Need,(below)
the one thing we need for growth*bukan pembesaran badan ya,tapi proses kematangan* is self-actualisation. So what is considered as the things needed for self-actualisation? Some examples are challenging projects which need you to be really creative, some problem solving thingies and that kind of things. They are considered as high level learning which gives you satisfaction after giving your all in doing something. So, to get self-actualisation, you really need to know what your ambition is. Without knowing it, you might be doing something that gives you no satisfaction until you're old and maybe till you're dead*kesian mati tak puas XD*. When you know you're ambition, you'll get the motivation and when you get the motivation, you'll do your best. That way, you'll get self-actualisation which will blooms your flower*mematangkan anda*. Want to live your potential? Then find your ambition.

Before I end this post, let me ask you something. Do you have an ambition or maybe ambitions? If you don't, then please find one or a few. Since it used to be really hard for me to find my ambition, now that I've got it, I'll tell you what I did to find mine. First, I tried looking for something I really love to do. Sesuatu yang bila Jaw buat, Jaw tak bosan, tak letih dan boleh melakukannya dengan berterusan. Secondly, I looked at what is my interest. I am really interested with something related to Biology, therefore I've decided after SPM and after foundation, no matter what happens, I will only further my studies with something related to Biology. Quite a large scope yet I managed to narrow it to smaller scale didn't I? You can do it to. Lastly, ask the God. As a muslim, I asked Allah by praying to Him to help me make the right choice. Praying to God is very important. Let me tell you why I say that, I have a friend who really wants to further studies in something*can't remember what* and somehow!!! Somehow, she changed her application to architecture on the last day and submitted it. She got the architecture course and at first she regrets it because it is way out of what she wanted to be but now, she is really happy with it. You see, this Invicible factor is really important. For me, as the creation of the Almighty God, He knows what is the best for us, we don't and that's why we need to pray for His guidance.
" ;dan boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu padahal ia baik bagi kamu, dan boleh jadi kamu menyukai sesuatu padahal ia buruk bagi kamu. Dan(ingatlah), Allah jualah yang mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahuinya." Al-Baqarah;216
That's all for this post. If you benefited from this post, thank God. If you don't, then please do not hate me as I'm just a humble writer. Be sure to wait for another post. See ya. Chiao.


Sunday, November 11, 2012

Jaw or Lonymous?

Hey guys. My first update after a few months. Not very important, just want to declare a few things about my blog.

First, this is still the same blog as 'What I Wrought'. I only changed it to a new name which is 'Jaw's Tales'.

Second, I changed the url to a new one too, ''.

Lastly, I declare the name Lonymous will not be used in this blog anymore. Jaw is my new nickname.

So, why Jaw? A simple explanation. My new friends, especially the Kelantanese usually call me Jaw, that's how they say Raja in their slang. What about Tales? Simple too. What I write here are my tales, that's all. No need for me to say more. See ya, be sure to read the next update all right. Chow.



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