Be Positive

Hey guys. How are you? I hope you're doing well. Hmm. As I had received my final examination result a few days ago and my baby brother and sister received their's today, I feel like writing about it tonight. But I really hope you won't misunderstand my intention. I just feel like giving some advice to myself and you and totally 0% intention for boasting. Alhamdulillah, I managed to get 5As and 1B.  Too bad my brother's and sister's results are not that good and not very bad either. So I asked my sister, why can't she get at least no C in any subjects and didn't she feel stressed out. "Ok la tu. Dapat nombor 47 per 205 lagi dalam tingkatan" answered her. "Hah? nombor 47? Kalau camtu bagi dapat semua B pun dah boleh dapat nombor 1-2 kot." "Mana ada.Budak yang nombor 1 tu dapat 7A" "Haa.Dah dia pandai,kawan la ngan dia.Baru leh jadi pandai." And this answer really hurts me, "Tak nak adik. Dia tu pelik. Cakap sorang-sorang.Macam abang la." "Tu satu cara nak belajar. Ulang apa yang belajar tu kuat-kuat.Bukan pelik." "Tak nak la.Dia tu pelik.Lain dari orang lain.Semua tak suka ngan dia.Tak nak adik."

And bla bla bla our talk continues. So the point here are:
1: Why do people think someone who talks to themselves(memorizing process) are weird and tends to stay away from them?
2:Why do people hate/discriminate someone who loves studying?


All right. I cannot answer those questions for myself because I really really have never think that way to other people. No matter how smart they are, or how weird they seems when they're studying, they are normal for me. Ya la. Bukannya cakap sorang-sorang macam, "Woi.Hang nak p mana? ; Haha.Lawak la you ni ; Ko jangan main-main ngan aku.Karang aku sepak sekali menyesal sepanjang hari." If they're like that, possibly they are crazy. Tapi masalahnya diorang cuma cakap macam ni, "Ni kena kali ngan ni,eh,tapi yang ni untuk apa ; Force is a pull or push, then, gravity tu tak push dan tak pull, wth dia dikira sebagai force pulak ; esok exam bio,aku nak study chapter 8.Lusa fizik aku nak rilek je."
Do you consider people like that crazy? Onegai. Please please please stop. Don't. They are just studying in their own ways so let them be. And please don't discriminate them. Don't push them aside until they have not many friends. Sampaikan kebanyakan kawan diorang pun jenis camtu gak. Rugilah orang yang berbuat demikian. Believe me. Try making friends with them and you will see that they are also normal like you. Benefits for you...You made friends with brilliant students and God willing... You will be like them too. Nothing to worry about. Even if some of your friends might think you're weird after that but at least you changed for the better. I got a story to tell you. It's my own experience and insyaAllah, you can believe this because I am not making story. Last year, when I was form 5 and still in MRSM KuPa, there is a new form 4 student who didn't tuck in his shirt. So, I asked him to tuck it in yet he growls at me and that time...I really really hate him. And the another time, a friend of mine asked him to do the same and he did the same thing he did to me. Then, the prefect commitee brought him to see the discipline teacher and there he was scolded. After that case, I never saw him doing anything bad anymore(sebenarnya dia cuma tak tuck in baju dan tu je masalah dia) and a few months after that, I became friends with him. He apologized to me and he said he was doing that at that time because he thought I was a junior(ya la...badan kecik). After that, when he sees me and my friends, he greeted us nicely and before I know it, I already like him. Betul cakap seorang kawan ni, "Hang kena kawan dulu ngan dia raja...Baru hang tau. Dia tu ok la." That time, I thought he was joking but in the end... I fell for it. That boy really is a nice guy. So, the point here is, never think bad about people until you have make friends with them. That's all for tonight.


~Lonymous~