Dear Girls

Author's Note: You may want to listen to the song #6 in my playlist while reading this, Trevor Wesley - Chivalry Is Dead. Why? You'll understand soon enough. n_n

Definition of 'Lady' according to Merriam-Webster Dictionary :

a) a woman who behaves in a polite way.

b) a woman of high social position.

c) a man's girlfriend.

Jaw's conclusion : a woman who's well-mannered and knows how to treat herself right and in turn rendering others to treat her the way she wants naturally(voluntarily).

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Dear girls,

you wear tight shirts to go on a jog, shoving your chest to everyone's face, yet when guys stare at them, you glare saying they're perverts who have nothing better to do. You forget that even girls' eyes bulge when they see you and talk behind your back. If you care that people look at your bouncy flesh when you run, why not wear something loose? Saying things like I can wear what I want and people shouldn't stare is like you having a bicycle but you never lock it and when people steal it, you blame them and say, "It's my bike. I have the right to lock it or not but they don't have the right to steal/use it." Yeah it's true but don't you think that is being less smart?

Dear girls,

you wear fit, short pants to gym, skin-coloured to boot, and when you sweat, your undies shows. Again, when a guy suddenly stares at your booty, you yell at him for looking but then, isn't it of your own doings? Don't you think to be angry is not really what you're supposed to feel at that time but to be ashamed is more appropriate. Yes, it's hot when your workout so you want to wear something comfortable. Okay, we get it but that's the price you have to pay for wearing something like that, guys and girls staring at you. Pay it if you're willing to but if not, again, wear something else that makes you feel less degraded. I mean, won't you stare if a guy walks into the gym wearing only boxers while exercising?

Dear girls,

don't you want to be a lady? To be treated in a dignified manner as you deserve? *sings*

"So I must open doors and make you feel like the lady you are. My momma raised me to be classy not flashy I'm happy to please you~ Girl, let a real man pick up the slack and treat you with respect, yeah." Trevor Wesley - Chivalry Is Dead

Not all men are dogs. A real man will treat you with respect, they won't do things that may cause you discomfort but let's get real, these men are not someone you see everyday, everywhere. Gentlemen are rare breed. However, guys will treat you right if you let them but that means, you need to know how to treat yourself right first. How you act defines how most people will act to you. So, to be treated as a queen or a slut? Your choice, ladies.

Dear ladies,

pardon my rudeness. I am not saying wearing tight shirts, short pants and the likes of it makes you less of a lady. If you want to wear them and you won't blame people for staring, then go ahead and wear what you like. All I'm saying is, people treat you how you point them to. Your dressings, the way you act will be enough to tell people that. And if people do as said above (staring at your body) when you are leading them to, blame yourself first instead of saying men are dogs because we can also say things like women are bitches. Sorry for the crude words, but I feel it's necessary. 

I'm sorry if this post hurts you in anyway, tell me what's wrong with it and if you have suggestions, a better way to make the point, I'm glad to hear it so leave a comment. Take care and ciao.

~Jaw~