Hate

Why hate life when there are various ways to love?

Hey guys. What's up? Hope you readers are in good mood and are enjoying a good day*err..night?Or is it morning*. n_n   Anyway, it's been awhile since my last post*I don't have any idea what to update about actually* and now luckily, I got an idea on what to talk about. Let's get to the point.
Hate. A very well known word. Siapa tak tahu 'hate' atau benci ni bukan manusia namanya. We're born with that emotion,feeling or whatever you call it. Jadi, satu poin penting yang nak diberitahu di sini, tak salah untuk membenci sebab itu normal. Well, who does not hate being bullied? Who like their family members being disturbed or hurt by anyone? Who like seeing violence?*except violence movies that is.Yang tu tak dinafikanlah kalau ada yang suka tengok* Anyone? If you are, better go find counselor or someone who can help. You're in need of some serious help. Kebelakangan ni, saya kerap melihat kata-kata kesat, 'hate videos' dan macam-macam lagi yang berkait dengan kebencian dalam internet.
First, rant. 'Rant' bermaksud berkata-kata atau menulis dengan nada yang marah. This is definitely... Hmm. I'd say it makes about 5-10% of my daily news feed in Facebook. Itu yang nampak, yang tak nampak entah berapa banyak lagi. Example, "Perangai macam f***. Dalam fb sembang kencang,dok maki aku gila-gila,depan-depan kalih kepala. Takut ka? B***." You see, this is definitely not healthy. Not healthy at all. I wonder, do they not realise that they're talking about themselves? Kata orang sembang kencang dalam Facebook dan dia pun sama. Macam peribahasa Melayu, bagai meludah ke langit. What they said came back flying to them just like a boomerang and they don't even realise it. Sad. Kadang-kadang orang macam ni akan cuba untuk tidak memikirkan benda-benda ni sebab tak nak serabut katanya, tapi kebencian tu disimpan je dalam hati. Do you think they'll be able to forget about it or at least ignore it even if they try? The answer, no. When you do not forgive, the hate will always haunt your mind. Bila dah benci, mesti akan terfikir "Kenapalah mamat tu bengong sangat?" or "How can I get my revenge?" or something like that. Even if time will  make you think less about it, but it definitely can't make you forget permanently. Macam mana tak serabut kalau macam tu. Learn to forgive, if you're not doing it for the sake of the people you hate, then do it for you. Sebabnya itulah satu-satu cara untuk membebaskan fikiran kita daripada berfikir mengenai masalah-masalah tu.
Second, hate videos. This kind of videos are abundant in the internet. Kalau di Malaysia terutamanya, sekarang ni banyaklah video-video ceramah politik itu politik ini *lagi-lagi pilihanraya dah dekat ni* dan kebanyakannya mereka mengajar kita untuk membenci parti musuh mereka. Not long ago, there's this guy who posted a video about an ulama that calls another ulama a kafir. Haish. This is what hate brings, broken friendship, broken trust, broken bond, broken everything. Many blames that politics is what made this happen but what is wrong with politics? Nabi juga berpolitik jadi salahkan politik? NO! It is hate that made this happen. Kalau seseorang tidak membenci seseorang yang lain, dia tidak akan sesekali mengkafirkan orang tersebut. Video-video mengenai Bersih 3.0 baru-baru ni. Banyak jugak menyebarkan kebencian. Yang peserta Bersih mengatakan si polis anjing dan si polis pulak menganggap peserta Bersih ni perosak keamanan. Jadi ramailah yang berpecah, ada yang menyokong si polis dan ada yang menyokong si peserta Bersih ni. This is a bad influence to the new generations. But luckily, I see that many young generations, those we can call teenagers who have realised that hate does not bring anything except destructions and therefore many have called for the others to change and be more diplomatical. Maybe not everything can be settled with words but that is definitely better than warlike protesting.
Basically, what I'm trying to say is, hate less, love more and forgive a lot. Do not hate people for what they've done wrong because we as humans always make mistakes.*Try not to repeat the same mistakes though* Love more people, and other living things. Do not hate them for what they are like some people who hate the Jews just because they're Jews and they say Jews are supposed to be hated as they are definitely no good. That's wrong because they can't choose to be born in what nation and because of that, it's definitely wrong to hate people for something they can't choose or control. And lastly, do forgive mistakes people make. If it's hard, just think that you are also the same as them. You also make mistakes to people and sometimes you didn't even notice it. Therefore, pray that when you forgive them, you will also be forgiven. That's all for tonight. Thank you for reading. Chiao. n_n


~Lonymous~